02:04:24 am on May 28, 2007 |
What is a gentleman? The meaning itself has too many definitions that require us to explore. For instance, woman wants their husband or their boyfriend to be a gentleman because in their mind, a gentleman is a responsible person. While the society defines a gentleman is the one who knows social etiquette and possess good manner.
To be a gentleman is not a must, but it is an option whether you want to be or not. Not all guys can be called as ‘gentleman’ because there are numerous reasons why a person should regain that title. Here are several factors that indicate how importance the title as ‘gentleman’ to the man.
As a matter of fact, most women observe a man on how would they respect their opposite gender and other people generally. Unfortunately, most men ignore good social etiquette in dealing with the women.
If you are neither macho nor handsome, your manners such as how you treat the women and taking care of other people would be sufficient enough to make the women could not take their eyes of you. This is the power reflects from individual manners.
A gentleman should also have the ability to interact with other people that they just met. A gentleman knows how to present himself in front of the public. They are not scared, shaking or nervous. A gentleman always knows how to put himself in many different societies because he has a good grasp on how to communicate with other people near him.
A gentleman is a great difference between a boy and an adult. When a boy teenager is being trained and shaped by his parents to have the gentleman’s characteristics, we could see the result as he would act as a mature person and bring a pleasant environment to us although he is still a teenager.
In fact, to be a gentleman is a towering personality that measures a person whether he possesses such a high and excellent manners in his live. Malaysia Prime Minister, Datuk Seri Abdullah Ahmad Badawi stressed on the importance of having politeness in each and every Malaysian people.
Either directly or indirectly, a gentleman who reflects good characters already fulfilled what the Malaysian government wants. And all guys out there, do you want to be a gentleman? The choice is yours!